BEING SINGLE SUCKS!

STAYING SINGLE SUCKS The sad truth that we don’t want to admit! The feeling that comes with waking up in the morning and no finding “good morning love Kind of message, the feeling of unwanted that comes with realizing that nobody called to check on you for days! Worst of the part where we don’t fit in when everything else turns romantic! If you are following then you have been into these occasions or worst. The truth is no one likes being in these circumstances but as if it is not enough they just happen unannounced and you suddenly have to get an excuse to leave or read a message you dint receive or pick up a phone call that isn’t ringing. Life takes us to different places but this isn’t a space to be in.to sum up all that you only find happy couples when you are single and hear people in relationship saying “….you can’t understand how luck you are!” . Seriously or they are just mocking single people? Well I personally find it hard to tell the difference but thanks to memes era, people actually express their feeling in memes and find a way to make it okay! Sorry to expose that secret! But it shouldn’t be okay. You only know that things are getting really serious when you only get posted on statuses on your birthdays and your dumb friend’s girlfriend is throwing him home party, outdoor party or a Halloween party! Well relationships can be complicated but I don’t find any fun in being single! It truly sucks! Don’t you think so?

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KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE

Story Subtitle or summary Most of us struggle a lot when it comes to figuring out what we want in life. Is it wrong not to have it all figured? Is it immature of people not to know? Or there is a certain age that you reach and boom! You know! Just like that! The truth is that many of us haven’t figured it out yet! I mean what can people even want in life anyway? Some would say financial stability, a great career, a happy marriage, a loving partner or simply peace of mind. The list can be very long. Some theories have divided people’s ages in decades and assigned some common tasks or truth that relate to decades you fall in in terms of ages. Meeting these society expectations sometimes become very tricky and harder than it sounds. In your 20’s you are expected to make a lot of mistakes, make new friends and connections, and discover your passion. Honestly some of us don’t even understand what it truly means having passion in our lives at these ages. Then you enter your 30’s and now everyone is expecting you to be fully mature and ready to make hard and life changing decisions. You are expected to settle down and build a life and all those responsibilities that comes along with it. Well can we say that it is in these years that you figure that out? It kind of is strange to go beyond right? In life we want different things. It is not wrong that you haven’t found out what you want at whatever age you are right now. It is great if you have but if not, put your skills and time to work, engage and who knows? You might land your own passion. You just cant find anything if you are not looking.

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LEAVING THE VILLAGE

LEAVING THE VILLAGE Does cities really provide a lot job opportunities than villages? Well if you are asking yourself this too, then you might have also thought of leaving the village for jobs in the town or know a friend who has. Of course it’s no secret that the cities offers more but also on the second thoughts, the cities present more challenges and setbacks than the villages. So is it worth the risk leaving our safe nest? Things now looks like youth don’t have opportunities in villages but only in towns yet making towns really packed places. Could this be happening naturally or there is another driving force that gets youth away from homes. Some say it’s the felling of independence or enormous amount of confidence that comes with feeling in control. People can give different reasons but we can agree that what all have in common is that poverty can push people to places they never imagined being in before. Besides that what has driven you to leave your village if you did? Leave that in your comments! By T.Sympatique

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